I just returned from a weekend at Ka La’i Waikiki Beach, LXR Hotels & Resorts where I joined the team to host a FAM trip curated by LXR Hotels & Resorts and National Geographic. The itinerary included hiking, farm-to-table dining, and immersive cultural experiences.

More than just an itinerary, the trip offered invaluable insights into the evolving expectations of luxury travelers, both from staying at a five-star hotel, and spending the weekend with luxury travel curators.

𝗞𝗲𝘆 𝗧𝗮𝗸𝗲𝗮𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀:

𝙎𝙩𝙖𝙮 𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙣𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙚𝙙: When onboarding new Marketing Managers, I emphasize the importance of building strong relationships internally; your DORM, Reservations, and Front Desk teams will quickly become your closest allies. But just as critical, especially in the luxury space, is staying connected with your Director of Leisure. Some of the most valuable insights I’ve gained have come directly from conversations with travel advisors.

𝘛𝘪𝘱: Make it a point to join your leisure team for lunch the next time they’re hosting a Virtuoso advisor; you’ll walk away with invaluable perspective.

𝙄𝙣𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙀𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙩: Before recommending experiences to clients, it is essential to engage with those recommendations from a guest perspective. Understanding and correcting the nuances firsthand ensures authenticity and builds trust. Fix the feedback before it comes from your guest.

𝘛𝘪𝘱: Guest experiences shouldn’t be sold, they should be shared. Start by experiencing them yourself.

𝙎𝙩𝙖𝙮 𝘼𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙤𝙧 𝙁𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝘽𝙚𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙙: Invite-only pickleball tournaments in Abu Dhabi. Longevity-focused wellness escapes in Blue Zones like Okinawa. In-room NAD+ IV therapy administered with clinical precision. All experiences that I heard about from luxury travel advisors. Today’s affluent traveler seeks access, exclusivity, and bio-optimized experiences. A standard seasonal spa package for the masses no longer makes the cut. More than ever, intentional partnerships, not just co-branded promotions, matter.

𝘛𝘪𝘱: Collaborations with travel advisors deeply embedded in this space are critical. And if you ever have the opportunity to engage with a Travel + Leisure Travel Advisory Board member, take it. Their insight is invaluable.

𝙀𝙢𝙤𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙀𝙣𝙜𝙖𝙜𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩: True luxury hospitality goes beyond opulence; it’s about creating emotional fulfillment. Every touchpoint should be designed to evoke a sense of care, comfort, and connection. Service-wise, I experienced this firsthand at Ka La‘i, where thoughtful gestures stood out: the team noticed a local Hawaiian soda I had purchased and stocked my fridge with additional flavors, and they had oshibori towels ready for guests returning from a hike. These details matter. From conversations with travel advisors, experience wise, exclusivity and authenticity are paramount. The luxury traveler is drawn to experiences that are invite-only, deeply personalized, and feel genuinely unique.

𝘛𝘪𝘱: Identify anticipatory touches that reflect genuine care, then embed them seamlessly into the guest journey. Luxury isn’t just delivered, it’s felt in the moments guests didn’t know they needed.

𝙍𝙚𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙣 𝙤𝙣 𝙀𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚: Thoughtfully curated experiences yield meaningful returns. From a marketing perspective, the most successful activations are those intentionally designed and executed with cross-departmental buy-in, not just items checked off an “activations” column on a marketing plan.

𝘛𝘪𝘱: Lasting impact comes from experiences that are integrated, intentional, and emotionally resonant; surface-level won’t do.

More than ever, this trip helped to confirm that In luxury and hospitality, success lies in the details, the authenticity of experiences, and the ability to exceed expectations at every touchpoint.